Schism begets schism. When I was in policy debate in high school, an opposing team once argued that we should not be talking about a potentially dangerous situation, because the more we talked about it, the more likely it was to occur. After hearing their contention, I was incensed. The argument was so generic it could be used against almost any case. I also wondered how … [Read more...] about More Love, Less Schism
Ministry
Fear
If I had a big furry hat like Stephen Colbert and could make decrees, I would declare that fear could no longer be used in argumentation in the life of the church. At two different annual conferences I attended this year, the speeches against constitutional amendment two centered on the fear of an unknown future where the word gender might be more fluid than a binary … [Read more...] about Fear
Perspective
One of the more hurtful experiences in my ministry was when a United Methodist pastor, a predecessor at the churches I serve, did a funeral for a member of my church. The act itself was not very hurtful, but the pastor's response to me calling out the inappropriateness of it was. I wrote a letter explaining why I thought it was wrong and how it violated the Book of … [Read more...] about Perspective
Messiness
The United Methodist Reporter featured a blog post by Scott Fritzsche entitled "Breaking up is hard to do (Let's Admit it is time)." The title aptly sums the essence of the post. I would politely contend though that he is wrong. Breaking up is obviously an option, but it is not the only option. While it may be the most expedient possibility, there are other possibilities … [Read more...] about Messiness
Living in Tension
Folks on Twitter today are disappointed that the bishops of the UMC did not come up with a plan to save the UMC. For faithful people who care deeply about Jesus and the church, this seems a bit weird. We have a savior and the bishops are not Jesus. Why should the bishops be the ones to save the church? Salvation in the Bible takes time. God did not immediately free the … [Read more...] about Living in Tension